I didn't expect to fall in love with him I am Australian by birth and car lived here for 20 odd years so have no family here other than my 17 year old son and the many wonderful friends I call family I am very extroverted, work full time and have a side business and can keep myself busy every day I would rather know now it will not work Does anyone find they are a bit unemotional.
If you can genuinely deconvert her then ohmibod. This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened.
An important is doing this together. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come.
I'm going to disagree with what some of the people have said. Eternity is a long time. There will be sacrifices but I am hopeful. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point.
That was my experience.