My advice would be to date him when he has free time. It takes the right personality and commitment on both sides. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. My husband is a doc in the UK so I moved 7, miles for love. You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home. These are also only the American statistics. They are grown now and serving their country but luckily they still need Mom and Dad sometimes!.
How do Mormons feel about contraception. It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this. She was a mormon and he finally joined the church at For 40 years there was a disconnect and pron gmes really viewed him as a lesser person cause he wasn't a member.
You have to choose what's right for you, but you have to figure it out.
I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. I get sweet texts some morning when he is on his way to the office and that's all it takes the rest of my day is amazing. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity.
I married a non-member over 20 years ago. But daytime game is the key.