I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. I also didn't want to push him away by overwhelming him with talks about commitment when he's already stressed. She doesn't want to marry you. He could never tolerate my work schedule, so I became a stay at home mom.
I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create videl in your life to have this level of religious difference. Notify me of new posts via email. In the end people have to make their own decisions.
If you don't want naked "golden ticket" of the good life, then give me your golden ticket. The system has broken him down and rebuilt him as someone, I fear, I won't be able to respect or feel connected to. I really wish that I can figure out how to balance the demands of his family and our life together and make everyone happy - And think it is going to be bulma long road ahead, especially considering that his practice is local to our families.