I have seen love prevail over beliefs. All parent-child relationships do. A lot will fall into the shoulder of the other partner who is not a doctor. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. I felt like I was 'on call' for when he would be available to see me. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore.
This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. Youtube wise words when tell others to take a very cold hard look at there life. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel black your Heavenly Father about your own situation.
Between kids and his work and his being asleep in the seex room chair, there is no communication. That I will be expected to be a full time single parent most of the time. It's like watching girls lose themselves in an abusive relationship. Not sure how much longer I can go on, like this As the physician, I found this blog searching for ways to make my spouse feel more important.
I miss my husband dearly. It hasn't been easy for me to create a regular social life that involves me missing a husband. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I.
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I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. We DO live paycheck to paycheck. I almost left the marriage,3xs. Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. I knew that I couldn't possibly be alone. God will help you both work this out. I read through a few of the LDS.