The first time, the shrink said, "It is very common for a woman to divorce so their children WILL see their father more. There's a different kind of balance, but that doesn't mean that there's no balance. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock. BUT it could easily have gone the other way. He want to wait at least one year before lana rhoades makes any decision he want to take it slow.
He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. But if you are with someone who is plainly selfish or dishonest or mean, then don't let them use their occupation as an excuse.
You don't want a divorce because it will hurt the kids - they love him and think he's the greatest. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. It is very painful, considering that we have an 8-year old son.